Suit for Men

Those who wear improperly fitted suits may hear this insult: "Are you wearing that suit or is the suit wearing you?" The secret to wearing a suit is buying the right suit for you, which means getting the best suit you can afford, then paying to have it tailored.

Method 1 

Tailoring Your Suit

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   Ensure that when you are standing in the jacket, a ¹⁄₄ inch (0.6 cm) of shirt collar is exposed above the suit collar. The jacket will ride up when you sit, and if the collar is too big, your shirt collar will disappear under it.
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   Measure the jacket sleeves so a ¹⁄₂ inch (1.3 cm) of your shirt cuff is exposed.
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   Look at the shoulder pads to make sure they are gently sloping downward. If you have big shoulders, you should have smaller shoulder pads than the average man.
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   Raise your arms over your head while wearing the jacket. If it rises up enough that it looks comical, you need to have the armholes adjusted.
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   Use a mirror to make sure that your jacket isn't too short. It should just cover the top of your rear end.
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   Check your pants. They should sit at your waist, not your hips. They should not be roomy in the crotch, but they should not be snug either.
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   Adjust the width of the pant legs so they hang without any bulges. Muscular men may need to have their pants specially made.
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   Hem the pant legs so they rest on the tops of the shoes with a small break in the crease.

Method 2

Wearing Your Suit

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   Never button the bottom button of your jacket. When you sit down, unbutton the jacket so it doesn't ride up.
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   Wear your suit with a quality dress shirt, belt, shoe and watch. Wear good socks that match the pants in color. If you're feeling brave, wear patterned socks such as argyle, but only if the other parts of your suit are conservative in color and style.
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   Tie your tie in a standard or Windsor knot and make sure it partially covers your belt buckle.
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   Add a pocket square. Fold it so it fits snugly in the pocket and just peeks out of the top. 
    
   Source : wikihow.com

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Attract an Older Guy

 
Dating older men can be difficult, especially if the age difference is significant. You are most likely going to be into different things, and have different tastes. But, that doesn't mean you can't be compatible. If you find yourself attracted to an older man, act mature and approach him with confidence. If things work out, and you start dating, take some time to make sure your interests line up. Don't let age get in the way of a happy relationship.
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Making a Good Impression

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    Go for a more mature look. Looking more mature doesn't mean you need to look old. In fact, your youth is probably one of your most attractive qualities. Rather, it means picking a hairstyle that suits you rather than something wild, and switching out some of your less mature clothing for a more sophisticated look. Basically, you want to be well put together to attract an older guy.[1]
 
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    Act confident. Nothing is as attractive as confidence. That means paying attention to your posture (sit up straight!). It also means looking him in the eye while you're talking to him. Try to keep yourself calm and collected, so your words come out strong and sure, not fast and jumbled.[2]
        Also, don't forget to smile. A smile lights up your face and shows you're enjoying yourself.[3]

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    Be able to take care of yourself. Many old guys will be turned off if you are just looking for someone to take care of you. In other words, have a steady job and a well-established house or apartment. If an older guy is looking at you, those qualities will show him your mature enough to date him.[4]
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    Keep your cool. You may think it's best to spill you're whole life story on the first date. Really, though, that shows a lack of maturity. Keep some things back for later in your dating life.[5]
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    Show you're committed to relationships. That is, be on good terms with your family. By being on good terms, you've shown that you can maintain long-term relationships, even when things may get a little tough.[6]

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Attracting an Older Guy

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    Act mature. Depending on how old the guy is, he may have completely different social habits than you. If you're in your 20s, and you're after a guy in his 30s, he may not be as interested in going out drinking as you are.[7]
        You don't have to change who you are to attract an older guy, but you should make sure the two of you are a good fit. An older guy is likely to be more set in his ways, but that doesn't mean you have to follow suit. You can still go out with your friends, but don't leave a string of drunken messages on his phone.[8][9]
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    Avoid pointing out the age gap. Getting over the age gap may be one of the harder aspects of dating an older guy. Avoid making references about his age, and if you bring your friends around, make sure they do the same.[10]
        An age gap between partners can make it harder to connect. He probably has different hobbies, and different tastes, than you do. Try to connect with him on these things. Listen to music he likes, but also try to expose him to things you like. Don't force him to behave like a younger man, but try to involve him in your hobbies and interests.[11]
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    Don't play games. It doesn't matter how old someone is, nobody likes manipulation. Don't try to make an older man jealous to get his attention, and don't play head games to make him want you.[12]
        One reason an older man might hesitate to date a younger woman is the fear of being toyed with. Approach an older guy with confidence and be direct. If you like him, say so.[13]
        Don't assume that because a man is older, he's mature and ready to settle down. Some older men may want to take advantage of younger women to make themselves feel younger. Just as you don't want to play games with an older man, don't let an older man play games with you.[14]
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    Treat him with respect. Don't go after an older man because you want his money. He may be successful, and he may spoil you with the occasional nice date, but that doesn't mean he's going to give you all his money.[15]
        Don't ask him how much money he makes, or what kind of car he drives. If he gets the feeling that you're only with him for his money, he's likely to end things. If you don't actually like the guy, don't lead him on.[16]

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Dating an Older Guy

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    Talk about your goals in life. Before you get into a relationship with an older guy, find out what his goals are. Does he have any long-term plans? It's important to know how you will fit into each other's life.[17]
        If he already has kids, for example, he may not be interested in starting a whole new family with you. If you don't want kids, this may be fine with you. But, if you do want kids, this could mean trouble down the road.[18]
        Don't sacrifice your own goals to be with someone who is already starting to settle down. Or, if his plans are to start traveling the world, and you're still finishing up college, don't drop everything just to be with him.[19]
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    Maintain intimacy. Intimacy is a big part of any relationship. Don't base your entire relationship on sexual compatibility, but take it into consideration.[20]
        Don't assume that an older man will be less sexually active. The opposite is more likely to be true. An older man has probably had more sexual partners, and is likely to have more experience in the bedroom.[21][22]

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    Have fun together. More than anything, make sure you can get along with each other. Learn from each other and delight in sharing new experiences with one another.[23]
        Take some time to assess your compatibility. Find out if you have any overlapping hobbies and pursue those. Find ways to spend time doing things you both enjoy.[24]
   
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    Introduce him into your social circle. One big hurdle of dating an older guy is wondering how he will fit in with the rest of your friends. Think about the type of people you regularly hang out with. How will they react to you dating an older man?[25]
        Your friends shouldn't dictate who you date, especially if you care for the person. However, you should consider how your partner will get along with your friends. Likewise, think about who he hangs out with, and how you feel about his friends.[26]
        Talk with each other about your respective social circles. Make sure your partner is comfortable with your friends, and vice versa.

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Create Relaxed Conversations with Quiet Men

 
Conversations and interactions when dealing with sensitive or macho males can sometimes be very uncomfortable experiences, putting you at great unease. However, turning this into a non-threatening exchange can be a very sensible way to get the most out of the conversation. Many males, and some females too, experience a lot of difficulty making conversation; many of us know how it feels when someone simply answers you with a polite "yes" or "no" but does little else to oil the conversation.

To overcome this frustrating conversational style, it's helpful to know that there are ways to encourage a relaxed conversation. While this article is mainly concerned with males, there are aspects of it that can be applied to the reticent female conversationalist as well. And as with all generalizations, there will be a lot of exceptions, so treat the guidance with common sense and flexibility, as you find your way to helping the stiff conversationalist come out of his shell to relax into a pleasant chat.
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    Help the guy to feel relaxed. While this may seem like a tall order initially, the simple trick is to be yourself and to avoid trying to fall into his way of being or rhythm. Use humor to break through the hostility and tension, and to break the ice. Once you've created space by smiling and encouraging his laughter, you'll be helping him to relax more and increasing your chances for talking longer.
        When using humor, make sure that it is about inoffensive things or that funny self-deprecating sort of humor that relies on making yourself the point of the joke. That way you won't accidentally tread on sacred ground and make things worse or cause him to feel threatened.
        Be careful with conspiratorial humor, such as saying "Look at us two dopes waiting for a drink at this bar filled with beautiful people". Trying to draw him in to seeing what's funny about the activity you're both currently doing can sometimes work but it can also backfire if he doesn't see the funny side of things or if he feels that you're poking fun at a serious choice of his.
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    Learn to relax yourself and this feeling will reciprocate. It's hard to expect a relaxed conversation if you're not relaxed as well. Try your best to approach the conversation in a relaxed manner, and to not fear talking with the guy. He will soon pick up on your vibes and let down his guard. When the tension breaks away, there will be a lot more room for significant interaction and conversation.
  
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    Don't be put off by stern and unfriendly expressions. Most often, when a male has adopted these types of expressions, it is done as an attempt to highlight their "manliness", "macho" status, or cowboy or tough guy type dispositions. The reality is that deep down, a soft and gentle soul lies hidden, waiting to be conversed with in a kind and understanding way.
        Consider pointing out something that you've noticed about him, such as his great hat, his funny T-shirt, or the kind way in which he just helped some kids get their balloon back. It's the little things (that add up to the softy that he is inside) that are worth noticing.
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    See past the opinions and judgments of other people. While you may have prior conceptions of the guy courtesy of a well-meaning (or not so well-meaning) friend or colleague, be prepared to make your own judgment. Every single interaction with a person is unique. We may all experience different sides to the same person and this means that every opinion has the potential to differ greatly. Make your interaction or conversation with this guy your own personal experience. One man may be a good son, but poor in friendships, another man an ideal husband but a monstrous elder brother. As you can see, each context is very different, and yet it involves the same person. This simply means making up your own opinion about the person in terms of how the two of you click or get along.
   
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    Create a non-threatening opening conversation. A male is most likely to bring the conversation to an abrupt end or make an excuse to get away politely, when he feels threatened or when you start to get too personal. Leave the curious inquisitive urges for some other time, when he gets to know you better and is more comfortable talking to you and hanging around you. Stick to topics that don't require a great deal of effort, such as sports, the weather, general comments about impressions of the place you're both in or the food you're eating, etc.
  
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    Choose your topic of conversation carefully. Find out as soon as you can what he likes talking about by asking questions aimed at eliciting this kind of information. Once you've formed a quick idea of what he likes and dislikes, keep on those lines to ensure that the conversation remains interesting to him. And use your own common sense when summing him up – for example, it would be pointless talking to a pensioner about the benefits of kick boxing, or to a hairdresser about cardiac surgery, etc. There has to be some common ground that both of you can pursue.
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    Be persistent but not to the point of annoying the other person. If you feel that this attempt at conversing is going nowhere or is becoming too torturous for you, break away politely and try again some other time. You may also not want to close all doors or reach a dead end on your first attempt, though. Leave avenues open for future contacts or meetings. This will also very much depend on how you feel about the situation but it can be worthwhile slowly chipping away at a reserved guy's defenses in small but gradual chats here and there, until he feels he can trust you and open up a lot more.
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    Always remember that not everyone verbalizes their opinions. Focus on the other's body language to assess if you're on the right track. This should give you some indication as to whether you should keep quiet or continue speaking. A grimace or deep sigh is obviously not a good positive indicator. It shows boredom or a lack of interest in what you are saying. However, an intent direct look in your direction or even a simple smile may suggest that you should go on and keep the pace. Also, it can help to know whether the person you're speaking with is visual, auditory, or kinesthetic, as knowing this can help you to direct your conversation so that they'll really gel with you:[1]
        Visual conversationalists are often well dressed, neat, and talk fast when they do talk. They talk about things visually, such as pictures in their mind's eye, and they tend to look around a lot. This person tends to like to be in control because he has a "vision". A conversation with a visual person can be improved by painting word pictures and using a lot of words that are visually stimulating, such as "How do you see yourself?", "I see eye to eye with you on that point", and "Can you imagine?". Think of yourself as describing so that this person can "see" your conversation points.
        Auditory conversationalists tend to be people who respond to sound. Conversation is something they love but it needs to be something they can tune into to awaken their interest. They're word lovers and often seek harmony in the sounds of words and they're always listening for the rhythm. A conversation with an auditory person can be improved by using terms that resonate with their hearing sense, such as "Sounds familiar", "Let me tell you how.", and "That had me tongue-tied and I heard her message clear as a bell".
        Kinesthetic conversationalists tend to be the most sensitive and things need to feel right for the conversation to proceed well. A trademark of this conversationalist may include slow, easygoing talk and a need to take their time to get to the point. Most of what they discuss will be couched in terms of feelings, and improving a conversation can be as simple as resorting to feeling language, such as "How do you feel about that?", "That must have shaken you up!", and "Keep in touch".
   
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    Enjoy finding out more about someone. One last way to approach a conversation with a guy who seems reticent is to remain genuinely interested in learning something new, something undiscovered about him. If you can look past how difficult it feels to hold the conversation and how much you wish you could escape and do something less demanding, you can find yourself genuinely amazed at finding out things about this guy that he only reveals to people who take the time to care enough to break through his tough exterior. What a reward to learn something about a fellow human being that might otherwise have gone unknown! Ultimately, this can really turn around your perception of the guy, so persevere and you might gain a trusted friend for life.

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Make an Average Guy Attractive

Is your guy really nice and sweet but kind of on the ugly side? Does this bother you? Many men pay little or no attention to their dress or demeanor, which can be hard to understand. While you cannot make an ugly person pretty, you can do little things to help him improve his appearance to you, increase his self-esteem, and stop you from being embarrassed.
Method 1
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Hygiene

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    Deal with obvious physical issues first. For example:
        Consider hair removal if he has a hairy chest or back.
               Get rid of his acne with a dermatologist visit, or try over the counter methods. Never rub lemon juice on your skin, it's an acid and will damage it.
      
        If he doesn't wash, make him wash.
      
        Get him a really good hair cut. Most guys have had 12 dollar hair cuts their entire lives. Get him an expensive salon hair cut.
       
        Examine his feet. If they are a "walking" bio-hazard wash them and give him a foot massage. Sneak in a pedicure at the same time. Clip his toenails, clean them (not the clippings), and rub in some moisturizer if his feet are chapped.
      
        Get a pumice stone and use it.
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    Rub lotion on his elbows and any other rough spots. If he objects to lotion (some men will), give him a massage with lotion or massage oil.
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    Make sure he brushes his teeth, flosses, and uses mouthwash.
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    If he wears unflattering glasses, help him use contacts or choose a nicer pair.

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Exercise and Fitness

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    Encourage him to exercise, at least a little. Just 20 minutes a day can make a difference. Exercising together can be a lot of fun.
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    Encourage him to grow larger arm muscles by lifting you up and down. Three sets of fifteen reps every other day should do the trick.
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    If he isn't the exercise type try going for walks, yoga or other "intellectual" fitness techniques.
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    Educate your guy on healthy eating. Remember health food doesn't have to taste bad.
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    Even a little exercise can improve posture which can greatly increase a person's attractiveness and apparent confidence.

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Dress

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    Encourage him to dress better. Nobody can change their physical appearance but they can change their clothing. Dressing well, and wearing clothing that fits is essential.
 
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    Try to encourage an interest in fashion, or at least clothing, by getting him a subscription to Esquire or other men's magazine that contains mature fashion hints.
  
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    Get into shoes with your man. A good pair of boots or shoes can increase his apparent height and posture. Shoes are also a fashion area that many men do not mind so much. Perhaps it is a good place to start.
  
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    Understand his personal style. It may appear that he has none, but that too is a personal style. If he is straining for a style or wants to change one your job is easier, simply help him become preppy, Emo, nerdy/geeky, or whatever he and you want.
  
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    Do a color analysis on his complexion and help him choose colors that best reflect what looks he has. Most guys don't understand this stuff at all, and he may enjoy reading about it.

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Dress in Executive Style

Many men and women are under the impression that all it takes to out-dress the competition is wearing a suit. Yes, a suit is important. However, there are other things to consider for an executive look:

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   Wear a good suit made of quality materials. A good suit consists of a tailored jacket worn with matching trousers for men and a matching skirt or dress pants for women. However, the style, quality, fabric and fit of the suit are equally important. Before you buy, check the suit for quality, tailoring and details. The best suit fabric is fine wool; the texture smooth; the design lines sharp. There are no puckers or pulling. Seams and stitching should be properly finished; and buttons are sewn on securely. Fit is imperative – have it altered or leave it behind.
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   Remember less is best. Executive accessories are high in quality, simple in design and classic in personality. For women, this would include jewellery- in small to medium sizes, quality metals and minimal details – scarves and belts refined in fabric and style. Men’s ties are of quality silk, with a plain or traditional pattern. The belt with a small buckle, must match the shoes, be simple in design, smooth in texture with a small buckle. When choosing your metals, always go for the gold… or platinum.
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   Wear a good pair of shoes. Shoes that shine classic is the key to any executive look. For women, classic means pumps ¬– in quality leather – preferably black. Classic oxfords are the only choice for men – With thin soles, smooth leather and black or cordovan in colour.
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   Wear well made hosiery. Hosiery When wearing a skirt, women’s hosiery must be nude and sheer. Men’s dress socks should be of fine quality, long in length and toned to match the trousers.
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   Remember the key to this effect is drawing attention to the face. Dark / light contrast, worn close to the face, commands attention; a splash of colour in the form of a tie holds attention.
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   Remember executive style is commanding style, not fashion style. Use these tips to create a classic executive style and out-dress your competition. 
    
   Source:  wikihow.com

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Get Circumcised for Men

Circumcision is the surgical removal of foreskin on the penis. It is most often performed for reasons of health and hygiene, as well as for other religious or ritual reasons. If you're interested in getting circumcised, read on for a description of the benefits and risks, as well as a plan for recovery.

Part 1

 Understanding Circumcision

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   Understand what circumcision is. If you decide to get circumcised, a physician will perform a short, relatively simple surgical procedure that will remove part of the foreskin of your penis permanently. After a period of recovery, your penis will heal normally, but without the retractable foreskin.

   • Generally, circumcision is performed on infant babies, but it's also performed on consenting adults, generally for cosmetic or religious purposes.
   • You should only get circumcised by a licensed physician or a mohel with a good record and experience. Under no circumstances should you ever attempt to circumcise yourself, as one small mistake can be dangerous.
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   Learn about the procedure. If you decide to go forward with circumcision, you should talk to your doctor about the procedure and set up a consultation. The procedure consists of the following steps, essentially:

   • Your genitals will be cleaned and prepped for surgery, and you will be anesthetized using a dorsal nerve blocker.^[1]
   • A cut will be made in the foreskin on the upper side of the penis using scissors, while a second slit will be made on the underside of the penis, cutting away the foreskin around the rim of the ridge under the glans.
   • The edges of the foreskin will be pulled back and the blood vessels will be tied off using stitches or diathermy, which involves using electrical currents to essentially cauterize the ends of the vessels.
   • Finally, the edges of the foreskin will be stitched and your penis will be bandaged tightly to begin your recovery period.^[2]
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   Understand the benefits. While there are many unconfirmed medical benefits to being circumcised, the truth is that most circumcisions are performed for religious or cosmetic reasons. Supposedly, circumcision reduces the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, urinary tract infections, and penile cancer. Some adults who get circumcised do so for reasons of hygiene, complaining that an uncircumcised penis is more difficult to keep clean and less sexually attractive than a circumcised one.

   • The reduction of risk in these matters is quite low: urinary tract infections and penile cancer are already fairly uncommon in males, while STDs are still highly communicable if safe sex practices are not used. Most adults tend to get circumcised for reasons of aesthetics and hygiene, or for religious reasons.^[3]
   • In less common cases, circumcision is also performed to correct phimosis, or constricted foreskin, acute inflammation of the glans as a result of balanitis, or paraphimosis, which involves a restricted foreskin.^[4]
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   Understand the risks. Essentially, a circumcision involves the willful cutting of your genitals, removing the most sensitive front tip of the foreskin of the penis. As with any elective surgery, there are possible complications. Typically done on infants, circumcision for adults carries with it a significant and uncomfortable period of recovery. Many people also claim that circumcision severs nerve endings in the penis and can irreversibly affect sexual stimulation.

   • As an adult, circumcision is a matter of personal choice and is controversial. Many circumcised adults celebrate the practice, and some decry it.^[5] Whatever you choose, try to weigh the benefits and risks and decide what is right for you.
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   Check out the hospitals or clinics in your area. If you prefer a private consultation, seek advice from your local physician. Contact a hospital and ask to speak with a urologist to get a second opinion on the potential benefits and risks, and to get a description of the procedure and the recovery.

   • For a teenager or an adult, circumcision is typically performed under anaesthetic and takes about two weeks for recovery.
   • Some hospitals will not perform circumcisions on adults unless there is a medical reason. If you're committed to getting circumcised, be prepared to shop around for a place to get the procedure done.
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   Prepare for the procedure. Make sure you've got some time set aside for recovery, which can take up to two weeks. If you're getting circumcised for religious reasons, use the time leading up to the procedure to complete any rituals associated with it. Consult members of your religious community for advice and guidance.

Part 2

Recovering from Circumcision

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   Keep the area clean and dry. Cover the genital area with waterproof covering during the first few days, when taking a shower or bathing, and keep the area very clean when using the restroom. The wound needs to be kept dry to facilitate quick healing.

   • Your doctor will offer more specific instructions and topical medication, but in general you'll want to keep the area as clean and dry as possible.
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   Wear loose cotton underwear. Change your underwear throughout the day to keep the area very clean. Also wear loose fitting clothing around the area to keep air circulating regularly. Avoid tight fitting jeans, and consider some cotton short pants or other loose clothing.
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   Use medication as directed. The doctor will probably prescribe analgesic cream or other topical ointments, and apply them regularly as directed. You may also want to add some petroleum jelly to the area to avoid chafing during your recovery.

Part 3

Getting Your Child Circumcised

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   Consider the implications of circumcision. It's common practice in American hospitals for babies to be circumcised within the first few days of birth, completing the procedure when recovery will be quick and relatively painless. Consider whether or not you'd like to leave the decision up to the child, or have it done in the hospital.

   • Often, parents will make this decision so the child will look like the father or brothers, to avoid confusion as the child grows up.
   • Talk to your obstetrician and pediatrician. In general, the procedure will be done quickly and will recover relatively simple cleaning for the baby to recover.
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   Keep the area clean. Avoid using wipes or other cleaning solutions and sponge bathe the baby with warm soapy water for the first several days.

   • Some pediatricians recommend keeping the penis covered, while some recommend leaving it uncovered to heal. If you want to wrap a little gauze around the penis, dab some petroleum jelly on it first to avoid painful snags.^[6]
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   To arrange ceremony for a Bris (Jewish circumcision), find a Mohel (Jewish circumciser). The Bris is typically done not at the hospital but at a separate location. To arrange a Bris, talk to your rabbi or other religious advisor. 
    
   Source : wikihow.com

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How to Flirt With Women

 
Flirting with women can be quite intimidating. But learning a few small tricks to help you along the way will make the process much less daunting. The more you practice these steps, the easier flirting will get. Becoming comfortable flirting will mean more confidence and, ultimately, more success!
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Being Mindful About How You Present Yourself

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    Be clean and hygienic. This may seem simple, but it's baffling how many guys don't take hygiene seriously. Physical attractiveness isn't the most important thing when it comes to being able to approach a woman you are interested in flirting with. Even if you don't consider yourself attractive, a little personal maintenance can go a long way.
        This includes things like wearing clean clothes, showering every day, using deodorant in the morning, brushing your teeth, making sure your hair looks presentable, etc.
 
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    Project confidence. This does not mean that you should be overly arrogant and brag about every wonderful thing in your life. But it does mean that you should go into a flirting encounter acknowledging your value as a person so that the object of your flirtation will pick up on this.
        Women are receptive to how people feel about themselves and they will pick up on it if you have no faith in yourself.
  
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    Smile![1] People will be more drawn to someone with a smiling face than they would to someone with a neutral or frowning face. Smiling sends a positive initial message, and can also raise a woman’s first impression of you before you even decide to start flirting with her.

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Understanding Body Language

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    Use body language to your advantage. Research shows that about 93% of our communication is non-verbal, with only 7% of communication happening through our actual words.[2] Because of this, body language is by far the most powerful weapon you have in your romantic arsenal. Understanding how to employ body language in your favor will overshadow almost any other mistake that you might make during the flirting process.
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    Practice body language mirroring. This basically means that you should imitate the other person's tone of voice, facial expressions, etc.[3] This will make the other person feel at ease with you and build rapport between you both.
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    Be mindful of how you position your arms. Having an open demeanor is what you should aim for when flirting with women. This means that you need to avoid crossing your arms (i.e. closing your body) or legs. Crossing your arms can be viewed as trying to put a barrier between yourself and the other person.[4] Try to keep your arms hanging at your sides if you are standing. And if you are sitting, open your legs toward the woman, if possible, and rest your arms on the tops of your legs, with your hands dangling between your legs. This stance demonstrates confidence and openness.[5]
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    Tilt your body towards her. This goes back to creating an open feeling between you and the woman you're flirting with. Tilting your head towards a person lets them know you're listening. Tilting your body towards a person lets them know you are fully engaged in the conversation.
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    Touch her playfully. A small touch can let a woman know you are interested in more than just talking to her.[6] Try complimenting her on her necklace and touching it briefly or lightly touching her arm as you laugh at something funny she's said.

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    Consider your in with the woman. The first initial interaction with a woman will set the stage for the remainder of the encounter, so it is important to choose your approach wisely. It is possible to
        Research shows that women are more receptive to third-party introductions or direct introductions than to cute-flippant lines, compliments, or attempts at humor.[7] So, your best bet is to find someone who knows the girl you want to flirt with and have them introduce you to her.
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    Understand verbal versus nonverbal communication. We communicate in many different ways. Body language, as discussed earlier, is very important, as is verbal communication. Both types of communication can be very powerful, so attention must be paid to both.
        Studies have shown that women employ more nonverbal flirting cues than men, but that they are prone to anticipate and expect more verbal flirting cues from the men who flirt with them.[8] As such, men who employ nonverbal flirting cues when engaging with flirtations with women might not be received as positively as men who employ more verbal flirting cues, which is what women are prone to expect. These men might even be viewed as less masculine because they are implementing flirting techniques that are considered to be more feminine.
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    Be perceptive to her body language. Notice if she is leaning in towards you or offering you small, quick smiles. Both of these are good signs and indicate that you should continue. If, however, she is not smiling or is constantly looking away, take this as an indicator that she is not receptive to your advances.
        Recognizing these types of physical cues is an ability that is very much instinctual. Because reproduction is necessary for the continuation of our species, we can inherently tell when another person is a good potential mate. In animal/instinctual terms, these physical cues are signals that you don't intend to dominate, nor do you intend to flee--both useful messages potential mates need to send before they can proceed to intercourse/reproduction. [9][10]

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Making the First Move

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    Walk up to her. Remember that women respond better to direct introductions, so keep this in mind. Smile as you approach and maintain open, confident body language.
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    Introduce yourself. Say hello and tell her your name. Or, better yet, have a mutual acquaintance introduce you to each other. Shake her hand firmly to show you are confident in yourself and that you respect her.
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    Make her laugh. There are many ways to make women laugh. You can try walking a tricky line by integrating two things that normally wouldn't be good at all by themselves: arrogance and stupid humor.
        If you're arrogant, she won't want anything to do with you, and if you just make stupid funny comments all the time she's going to think you're just a clown and won't take you seriously. But when you mix these two tactics together, the combination becomes something that'll draw the girl's attention to you like a magnet to metal.
        You've probably heard and seen things about nice guys finishing last and that jerks always get the girl. This is often because the nice guys don't use this technique, but the jerks do. This technique is effective because it shows the woman that you're funny and that you can laugh at yourself (by laughing at your own implied, pretend arrogance).
  
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    Keep the conversation going. Do this by asking her questions!
        Ask questions about the environment (What do you think about the band playing at this party? or Have you tried the food here?) or about things happening in the world (How do you like that new comedy movie?).
        And remember, a person's favorite topic to talk about is always themselves.
        If you're planning on truly getting the girl you must become the girl. Find out what her interests are, her style, sense of humor, likes and dislikes, and other things that make her her. That way she may feel comfortable when you approach her. Then mimic and compliment her voice and other traits with yours.

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